I walked into a bar and said, 'Give me a drink that tastes like the moment you're at a family barbecue, you've grabbed a plate, you found the good spot on the grill, you're about to take a bite, and your aunt walks up and says, Oh, you're having that? I saved that for you. You look at the plate. The plate is empty. You never ate. You were holding the plate. You were posing with the plate. You are a man holding an empty plate at a barbecue, and your aunt is watching you, and the drink is the only thing left.'