My coworker said, 'I always make sure to be a good listener in meetings.' I said, 'That's great.' He said, 'I listen. I nod. I don't interrupt. I let people finish their sentences.' I said, 'And then?' He said, 'And then I say, Right, so, anyway, I was thinking about this for a while and— and I talk for eleven minutes. I listened for four minutes. The ratio is good. I'm a good listener. I just have a lot to say after the listening.'