My friend said, 'On our date, he asked me what my love language is.' I said, 'And what did you say?' He said, 'I said, Quality time. He said, So you like spending time together? I said, Yes. He said, Great, I'm free Saturday, Sunday, and Tuesday. I said, I said quality time, not quantity time. I didn't say I want a schedule. I didn't say I want a recurring calendar block. I said I want to be in a room with a person I like, for a reasonable amount of time, without it feeling like a meeting with a dinner component. I want a date. I don't want a standing appointment with appetizers. I don't want to be on his calendar. I want to be in his evening. There is a difference between being on a calendar and being in an evening. One is a time slot. The other is a feeling. I want the feeling. He gave me the time slot.'